10 Techniques for Better Negotiation

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Startup entrepreneurs are not always the best negotiators. They step into the shoes of a business owner for the first time and find to their surprise that nearly everything involves negotiation of some kind, and they may not always he those negotiation techniques down.

Starting a business requires, quite literally, hundreds of negotiations. Some are small, like securing the best price on printing your letterhead and business cards. Others are far bigger deals that can make or break your startup business from the get-go. Sometimes you are the buyer; other times the seller. Either way, the skills you need to be a good negotiator are the same.

For some small business owners, it es naturally. They're the ones who started negotiating an allowance and extra TV time with their parents at age four. For most of us, however, it es through effort and experience. Rarely is it something you learned as part of a formal education.

Here are ten tactics that can make you a better, more confident negotiator on behalf of your small business:

Ten Negotiation Techniques:

Prepare, prepare, prepare. Enter a negotiation without proper preparation and you've already lost. Start with yourself. Make sure you are clear on what you really want out of the arrangement. Research the other side to better understand their needs as well as their strengths and weaknesses. Enlist help from experts, such as an accountant, attorney or tech guru.

Pay attention to timing. Timing is important in any negotiation. Sure, you must know what to ask for. But be sensitive to when you ask for it. There are times to press ahead, and times to wait. When you are looking your best is the time to press for what you want. But beware of pushing too hard and poisoning any long-term relationship.

Lee behind your ego. The best negotiators either don't care or don't show they care about who gets credit for a successful deal. Their talent is in making the other side feel like the final agreement was all their idea.

Ramp up your listening skills. The best negotiators are often quiet listeners who patiently let others he the floor while they make their case. They never interrupt. Encourage the other side to talk first. That helps set up one of negotiation's oldest maxims: Whoever mentions numbers first, loses. While that's not always true, it's generally better to sit tight and let the other side go first. Even if they don't mention numbers, it gives you a chance to ask what they are thinking.