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要记住的关键问题：如果一位面试官看上去很不耐烦很无聊，你要赶快长话短说然后寻求一些反馈。

Flattery Will Get You Everywhere

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Everyone likes to feel good about themselves. Even interviewers。

所有人都喜欢自我感觉良好，即使是面试官。

So to put an interviewer in a better mood, offer a pliment。

所以，给面试官一个好心情，说说称赞的话。

Say a nice word or two about the pany, the offices location, the view from the window -- something that will make the interviewer feel good. Paying a pliment also indicates you are a positive person, an attitude many hiring managers seek in candidates。

对面试的公司先说一两句好话，办公地址很好啦，从窗子看风景不错啦，说说这些会让面试官感觉很好的。称赞同时也暗示出你是一个积极的人，这是很多面试官希望从求职者身上看到的品质。

Giving a pliment about the pany is especially useful, since it will offer you a chance to show that you did research on the pany before the interview, proving youre well prepared。

赞美公司特别有用，因为这给了你一个展示的机会表明你在面试前对公司做了些研究，说明你对面试准备得很好。

A note of caution: Your pliments should not be too numerous, too obvious or too personal. If you suddenly begin gushing about how GREAT the interviewers haircut is, the interviewer will see right through your charade. Better to keep your pliment simple and safe, such as saying how friendly everyone seems to be。

提醒：你的赞美不能太多太明显或者太私人。如果你突然大谈特谈面试官的发型多么好，面试官马上就能看穿你的小心机。赞美的话最好说的简单安全，比如说，这里的每一个人看上去都很亲切和善。

You May Not Be the Problem

也许问题不在你

If you feel like youve done everything possible to succeed in your interview but youre still getting the cold shoulder, then follow this advice: Just do your best and move on。

如果你觉得自己在面试中尽了一切努力却仍然得到轻视，听从这个建议：尽力表现继续前进。

Perhaps the interviewer fought with his or her spouse that morning, or perhaps the interviewer is sick. Or perhaps, for no reason, the interviewer is just in a foul mood。

也许面试官今天早晨和另一半吵架了，或者面试官生病了。甚至可能什么原因都没有，面试官今天就是心情不好。

There are innumerable reasons why an interviewer may he been in a bad mood ... many of which he nothing to do with you. Interviewers are people too and everyone has bad days。

面试官可能心情不好的原因有千千万，其中一些和你根本没关系。面试官也是人，是人就有不太顺的时候。

So remember to trust yourself and not let it get you down. Just do the best you can and try not to worry about things you cant control。

所以，要记得相信自己，别让这打击了你。你要做的就是尽自己的全力去表现，不要担心那些你不能控制的事情。