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Knowing the deployable personalities in a negotiation (see my previous post) is a good strategy but does not address use of your strongest negotiation asset; your personality!
Effective munication is essential in a negotiation. Sincerity is the power behind the delivery of a point or proposal during a dispute resolution settlement conference.
Using your natural personality to color or add dimension to your delivery is your best means of making your statements e across as sincere. Getting fortable with your innate personal style will help you bee more believable; more trustworthy in the eyes of others.
Everyone has different personality traits. Some are hard-driving, get to the meat of the matter forces. Others are more relaxed, preferring to develop relationships before focusing on the issues. Still others use humor as a defensive or offensive tactic.
How do you e to understand your basic personality traits? Observe how you act around those you are fortable with; family, close friends, school chums. Are you the one cracking the jokes? Do they look to you to decide what to do? Are you always trying to keep everyone happy? How you act with these groups is a mirror as to your natural personality. You are relaxed and at ease. It is this personality that is you.
Knowing that you he a primary personality does not mean that it is the only one you can deploy during a negotiation. But it does let you understand your most sincere delivery style. As your mix the four negotiating styles in any negotiating situation you should find that you shift back to your primary style when trying to make an especially important point or close a deal. It is the strong under-current of sincerity you emit in this mode that signals the other person that this is your final concession, your highest bid or the point at which you are about to walk away from the table. It is a powerful message!
Knowing how to deliver key messages with intense sincerity is part of the art of negotiating.
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